Thursday, July 7, 2011

Negotiator's Notebook: How Leaders Inspire

A great organization that hosts several of my Negotiation Mastery Circles has two key objectives; a) to advance their negotiation skills and successes and b) to change the culture of the organization. To accomplish both, we know we must bring our whole selves to our whole life (including our work). While techniques and materials are important that are not enough to effectively engage people with the opportunity.  

 

A great book is Change the Culture, Change the Game: The Breakthrough Strategy for Energizing Your Organization and Creating Accountability for Results by Roger Connors & Tom Smith. And how do you get accountability and commitment? Make the work and the negotiation matter. Be clear on the “Why”. Align with what matters to you and the other(s).

 

Outside In and Inside Out:

Watch Simon Sinek: How great leaders inspire action.

“A vast amount of complicated information ... doesn’t drive behaviour.” Rather when we deeply believe in our “Why”, we succeed. Listen to the difference between the Wright Brothers and Simon Langley in their quests to invent the airplane. Note; the one with all the resources, respect, position and recognition did not “win” the race. Simon shares the Law of Innovation.
Rethink everything. Why? What is deeply important in this deal or project for me? Who shares it and gets it? How do I act and communicate as a leader and negotiator to invite them in?
Real leaders inspire what we believe.

Call to Action

Negotiate like everything is possible. Start with vision, clarity, connection, shared interests   and purpose. Look beyond what is widely accepted as impossible. Prepare for change.

Access for Negotiators

Contact Dave to have a conversation that matters leading to breakthrough negotiations. 

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

USS Makin Island, Breakthrough Thinking and Negotiation


We will never see the day when......

In our professional and personal lives we have each experienced the “impossible”. “This is the way we are/ this is the way things are/ this is the way they are...”line of judgement  prevents us, our world and our organizations from reaching far. So we often reach for just a little instead.
Think about yourself, your organization, other organizations, government, special interest groups, and all those that limit what we negotiate for.
Think about a metaphor for that “it's really hard to change course when...”. Bring a 40,000 ton, 850’long navy aircraft carrier to mind. Hard to turn that around.
Now consider what we know about the US Military, energy conservation and breakthrough thinking. Seems like three very separate things.
Now consider the USS Makin Island and the Green initiatives the American Navy are successfully pursuing. Energy saving, environmental protection, soldier safety and cost reduction appear to be merging in breakthrough thinking.
Check out this link on 9 Ways the Military Is Curbing Energy Use.
The USS Makin Island is that 40,000 ton, 850’long Navy aircraft carrier. It reportedly consumes less energy than one of the fighter jets that sits on its huge decks. Imagine that, our environment served by the military, safety, economy and vision. and Our world is changing. The impossible becomes possible with vision, commitment, challenging, team effort and rethinking everything.
Next time you find resistance to transformative negotiations; ask what if it is possible? If so, what can we do to achieve that together?  We can. The other side of the table just might want exactly that. The USS Makin Island; a great example.

Call to Action

Negotiate like everything is possible. Start with vision, clarity, connection, shared interests and purpose. Look beyond what is widely accepted as impossible.

Access for Negotiators

Contact Dave to have a conversation that matters leading to breakthrough negotiations.  dave@savagemanage.com

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Perception Filter Bubbles and Negotiation


I know this to be true or do I?

When we are certain of things in negotiation, we are also stuck in that knowing. “This is the ways things are done here” leaves creativity and fresh perspectives out of our available resources to negotiate great agreements for our current challenges.
Take a look at Eli Pariser on Ted Talks:
http://www.ted.com/talks/eli_pariser_beware_online_filter_bubbles.html
We are increasingly isolated from diverse opinion and perspectives. We are increasingly in a web of one and not in a world wide web. “The internet is giving us what we want to see but not necessarily what we need to see....and most importantly we don’t see what gets filtered out.” Eli states.
Now think about where “Filter Bubbles” show up in your organization and in your negotiations. “This is the basis of my perception. This is the hard data on that process. This is who that person is.” What if we are constrained by what we believe is true? What if there is so much more to understand, to explore and to create? What if we became curious about everything we believe? What if we knew there was so much more available wisdom than what we currently perceive?
There are many questions that arise. Simply holding onto “filter bubbles” keeps us in the bubble of certainty and away from the field of learning and creating new perspectives, new concepts, new relationships and new agreements to manage and surpass today’s challenges...

Call to Action

Negotiate like a child; ask why and say no to limited perspectives.  In the next week, find something that open your eyes, an “aha” moment of revelation. Start with curiosity and not knowing. Look beyond what is widely accepted.

Access for Negotiators

Contact Dave to have a conversation that matters leading to breakthrough negotiations. Burst your organizations Filter Bubbles!www.savagemanage.combeware online filter bubbles

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Negotiation Criteria

What if we could build an office tower without any reference to building codes or structural engineering? What if we were asked to buy vehicles without any reference to mileage, frequency of repair, safety or performance data? What if we could negotiate an agreement without any criteria to guide or evaluate that negotiation and agreement?

Negotiation Criteria; How May That Serve Us?

What are the criteria that you and your organization use to plan create and evaluate the agreements you negotiate? In many offices, we are clear on the goals of the negotiation. We can easily declare; “This is what we want. And this is what we think we will need to give to get the deal.”

I have been a paid as a negotiator since 1975. I lead Negotiation Mastery Circles to develop negotiation mastery with professionals. I coach executives and management teams around the world. And, in all this, rarely do I witness negotiators or organizations that use a criterion to plan, design, conduct and review the resulting agreement. When an oil company drills and completes a new well, they plan it, drill it, test it and ultimately evaluate it on many criteria including costs, finding cost per unit of proven reserves, economic and volume impact on area infrastructure, net present value, safety and environmental standards, how it fits within the bigger drilling program, what impact it will have on communities, what value the public market may see and many more criteria. Yet for specific deals, we tend to lump them in the budget, objectives and performance criteria of the organization. What value would a negotiator realize if the negotiator, team and organization had clearer and specific criteria for each negotiation? And with such a criteria, how much more freedom to negotiate might that individual have to achieve those criteria?

For a business negotiation, what might the criteria include? I strongly encourage you as the negotiator to draft these criteria from the perspective of your goals, your company and the future of both.

As a start, the negotiation criteria will include the basics such as time, costs, benefits, risks, commitments, ownership, how you will work together and dispute resolution. You should also consider building a more significant negotiation criterion that includes measures of accountability, relationship building, success metrics, creativity, learning, commitment, energy, leadership and balance.

Start with specific deals and create the negotiation criteria that serves your organization and you best. This will be evolutionary. Grow the use of the criteria to more deals and to other negotiators. As the criteria becomes more meaningful as a measure of what, who, when, why, where and how you negotiate, you will be judged on the basis of the negotiation and the outcomes the agreement creates. With greater certainty as to where you focus and how you will judge success, you should expect more independence in making the deals. While negotiation is an art, we must create standards and measures. In those organizations that are increasingly providing more authority to the negotiators (not just the executive), they gain confidence in this empowerment through having clear, consistent and objective criteria.

I challenge you to spend one hour this week with your team or peers creating a first draft of your own negotiation criteria. These are the criteria you will plan, design, conduct and evaluate the negotiation on.

To answer our questions at the beginning;

What if we could build an office tower without any reference to building codes or structural engineering? We will be able to build a small structure that may appear acceptable on the surface and for a short time. But we better report this to the authorities as it will be a danger to the public.

What if we were asked to buy vehicles without any reference to mileage, frequency of repair, safety or performance data? We will be able to buy a car that may appear acceptable on the surface and for a short time. But we better get it back to the dealer once we realize the facts.

What if we could negotiate an agreement without any criteria to guide or evaluate that negotiation and agreement? We may be able to create an agreement that appears to achieve our specific goals for a period of time. But once we realize what we missed we spend even more time repeating more of the same.

Well thought out negotiations with objective criteria can make us successful beyond what we hoped for. Negotiations without criteria and review can drive us to distraction from what we really want. From the perspective of your company’s big picture, what do you really want from your negotiations today, how will you design it, build it and inspect it? Will there be a warranty on your deals: of course it is your reputation and success.

Email your draft negotiation criteria to dave@savagemanage.com and I will compile all that I receive and send that collaborative draft negotiation criteria back to you.

Monday, March 2, 2009

story telling

I am interersted in hearing and sharing (on a no names basis for parties in the negotiation) stories about negotiations; what happened, what was teh circumstance, what was the relationship, what worked, what didn't, observations, ...if I could do it again....

Interested?

Sunday, March 1, 2009

why?

So many of us are searching for more rewarding and enriching ways to be present and growing in our professional and personal lives.

We are all "too busy" and allow ourselves time for this journey when all others priorities are "managed".

With this blog, I hope to connect, share and receive more opportunity to get/ create alignment, authencity, connection and continual learning for all who participate (me included).

The rewarding and leadership not for profits that I am active in include;
www.negotiationinsight.net for our Global Negotiation Insight Institute
www.c2cadr.org for Company to Company ADR Council, and
www.synergyalberta.ca for Synergy Alberta

With this blog, I will create a virtual roundtable for negotiation and leadership capacity and awareness building. Yes, coaching, training and working with negotiators and mangement teams is my business. www.savagemanage.com

Here is a discussion forum that is free.

Let's start the discussion; what needs to be "blogged"?